👇🏻I realized this… Our fights were not constructive. We never resolved anything! We had screaming matches where no one felt heard or understood. We made assumptions about each other’s feelings instead of asking for clarification. We said things we didn’t mean just to get a reaction. I would threaten to end the relationship because I felt she didn’t take it seriously enough. We always ended up in a never-ending cycle of defensiveness and blame-shifting, ultimately leading to silent treatment an

👇🏻I realized this… Our fights were not constructive. We never resolved anything! We had screaming matches where no one felt heard or understood. We made assumptions about each other’s feelings instead of asking for clarification. We said things we didn’t mean just to get a reaction. I would threaten to end the relationship because I felt she didn’t take it seriously enough. We always ended up in a never-ending cycle of defensiveness and blame-shifting, ultimately leading to silent treatment an